Getting Together and Working Together….

Helping Son

Helping Son

Hello and welcome back.

Not sure about you but here in my family there was a distinct  lack of work motivation on the part of my kids.  They were really focused on relaxing and playing the digital circus games.  At least that’s what I call it.  It’s a Merry Go Round of non-achievement.

But things are now getting better and better.  My son is cooking up supper for the rest of us as I am writing this, and he is doing a great job of it as near as I can tell.  How did we get that happening when it used to be so damn hard to get any work out of him?

You might notice, if your situation is anything like mine, that those who do little work spend a lot of time badmouthing everyone else. They are always pointing the finger at somebody else.  At the same time, what they are complaining about others doing, is usually something that they are doing in some area of living.  It might not be exactly the same, but there will be a element that can be closely compared to what they are complaining about.

This can be really useful.

We approached our son and pointed out how he was acting in exactly the way he was complaining about.  We didn’t go on about this, and we didn’t shout about it.  Just a quiet assertion of fact.

Then we asked for help.  We calmly talked about what kind of help we would like and asked him what he thought of that.  He thought it was reasonable and right away we got his input into drawing up a schedule where he could contribute.  His input was key to this.

Then we supported his desires on how he went about it, and were thankful for the good work he was doing.  All of this has brought us closer and is creating a more collaborative way of working.  When we are working together, we keep it light and talk about things we can both enjoy.

This is creating happy harmony in our home and is making the whole family team much happier and helpful.  It seems to be much more helpful way of influencing than the finger-pointing, yelling and screaming.  Try it out and let us know what you find.

You may even find a better way and we would love to hear about that.

Happy days to you and yours.

Take care, stay well, have fun!

Stephen Whiteley

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Tired of Too Much Fighting and Arguing….?

Fighting Couple

Fighting Couple

What would it mean to you to end the fighting and arguing in your home or workplace?

Sound impossible……….well prepare to be surprised, maybe even shocked……with just a few simple tricks, you will be able to stand your ground and end the fighting around you. Continue reading

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How To Love…….Unconditionally

Unconditional Love

Unconditional Love

We all have our own idea of what love feels like.  And we all have our own idea of where love comes from.  Most of us are unaware of just how powerful love is.  Real and true love is such a gift, that it can heal a wound and bring about a miracle.

And if this is true, how come we don’t see this so often?  Why is it so rare in our world?  Well, the major issue is Continue reading

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Giving Up Judgement In Your Family….

We Can Sort Ourself Out First

We Can Sort Ourself Out First

Judgement is so common that it may be hard to conceive living without it.  In fact, can you even imagine your world with no judgement?

Well here is the place and the way that you can actually end judgement Continue reading

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A Tale of Three Children…

The Whiteley Family

The Whiteley Family

I have three children, together with my dear wife (Lisa) of course.  The oldest two are boys (Sam and Lewis) and the youngest my daughter (Sofie).  All of them are remarkable humans and a larger diversity of personalities could hardly be imagined.  Given mine, and my wife’s personalities, we are all very different.

Differences like this are normally the cause of conflict, criticism and separation.  How interesting it is that Continue reading

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Valuing Your Relationship…

Love & Appreciation

Love & Appreciation

Relationships normally start out providing significant value for both people. We feel love, cared for, and appreciated. And of course, these are the feelings we all want and hope to enjoy our whole life through.

So what happens that turns our relationships into conflict and criticism? Continue reading

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Spring Clean Your Mind…And More

Spring Clean Your MindHello and best wishes.  As spring is now officially here and we are turning our minds to the traditional idea of spring cleaning, how about a something a little different?  In the three months since the new year, are your dreams for this year still alive?  Or did you even set some goals for this year.  I can easily imagine if you didn’t or they are no longer active.  This happens all the time and has happened to me in the past.  You are in the right place now.

The spring cleaning for your mind funshops are specially designed to give you the three key tools to come alive and surprise yourself and others with what you can achieve and not by working harder.  By relieving the stress you have been feeling and getting clear on what you want, and by eliminating the wasteful practice of fighting with yourself and others.

You can get the details for the funshops at this link http://happinessworks.ca/spring-clean-your-mind/

The book Happiness Works! Get Yours Here! was declared the Inspirational Book of the Year for 2012.  We are studying this book in a group setting starting Tuesday, April 8th. You can see the difference this group has made for people by clicking the testimonial tab above.  If you are open to joining this group, you can register at this link.  http://www.meetup.com/I-want-happiness-working-for-me/events/171806432/.

There will be other opportunities to increase your health, productivity and improve your relationships in the near future so keep watching this space.

I am looking forward to meeting you at one of these event.

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Revving Up Happiness For 2014 Success….

Embrace Happy Living In 2014

Embrace Happy Living In 2014

Well here we are in 2014 and I am excited.  2013 was  great year of spreading happiness and helping people let go of their troubles, stress and hurts.  In this year, let’s get our collective mojos working and spread the happy, healthy and wealthy lifestyle far and wide.

If you want to see some of the results Continue reading

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Happy Into the Christmas Holiday Season…

Golden Christmas GiftHello Dear Reader,

May this season be the most joyful in your memory, and may it become one to treasure throughout the years.  This idea can be yours with just a little new thinking and action on your part.  Imagine letting go of the stress, feeling great about yourself, and being appreciated by others.

Here is your recipe.  Continue reading

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The Merriest Christmas and the Happiest New Year for 2014

Merry ChristmasIt is that marvellous time of year again where we focus on the happy times, giving, celebrating and sharing experiences with those closest to us.  What a great idea and what a great opportunity.

Unfortunately, all of this sometimes gets lost in the struggle of getting things done, working through old conflicts with those close to us, and all the temptations to over indulge.

There is a way to switch from all of these troubles to what we really want at the beginning of this story. Despite a huge amount of conflict, clutter and stress, I have been able to create a happy and harmonious environment in and around me.  Wouldn’t you love to do the same?  Here is your golden opportunity.

Happy 2014During the Christmas and New Years celebrations, you have the opportunity to learn how to turn troubles into triumphs, and embrace the dreams you may have put on hold.  2014 can be your year to breakthrough.

At this time, there is a 50% price reduction on the Happiness Breakthrough Bundle.  This includes a copy of the award winning book, “Happiness Works! Get Yours Here!”, and two free months in the celebrated online community in the “Stairway To Happiness Heaven” daily happiness inspiration program as well as three one-on-one coaching sessions with Stephen Whiteley.  His clients have been making remarkable transformations for the better and now you can join this happy nation.

Full details for this offer are at http://happinessworks.ca/store/happiness-breakthrough-bundle/.  You may have had trouble getting lasting positive change working for you in the past. Many people are in this position, and as a result, their innate desire for improvement and increase gets focused on everyone around them.  Time and effort then switch to telling other people what to do, and how they should change.  Unfortunately, this is the recipe for conflict and stress. Most conflict is caused by people trying to change other people.

At Happiness Works, we are experts in creating and sustaining positive change. We know how it works and how to get it working for you.  Our clients are proof of this.

So when you learn how to create and keep positive change, you will end the conflict in you and around you.  The Happiness Breakthrough Bundle is waiting for you and will show you how to create lasting personal progress toward your deepest desires and your full potential.  Here is the link to your transformative, happy and successful 2014.  http://happinessworks.ca/store/happiness-breakthrough-bundle/.

Take care, stay well, have fun!

Stephen Whiteley

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